I'm officially divorced now. John and I went to the courthouse today, Tuesday, and got our divorce. We had been married almost ten years. Together for almost eleven years. We started dating when I was 17 and he was 19. There wasn't any cheating or anything like that going on. Like I didn't meet Arch online till almost 3 months after I told John I wanted a divorce. We just had problems from the start and we both worked at it but just couldn't get through them. Plus, we are two of the most stubborn people to ever grace the planet earth. So that caused problems. John didn't want a divorce. That was all me. He didn't fight me on it. So that was good.
I've got my maiden name back. I like that. I'm a Ms. again.